Sex Without Stress A Couple's Guide to Overcoming Disappointment, Avoidance, and Pressure [Audiobook]

How do we get to the point where sex is fun again?
Am I broken? Is there any hope?
Jessa Zimmerman takes on the heart-wrenching questions that naturally arise when couples are struggling with sex. Once sex becomes synonymous with disappointment, avoidance sets in and creates pressure in the bedroom. In this straightforward and practical book, Zimmerman guides us to understand the cycle that develops when sex is difficult, to shift our mindset when it comes to sexual intimacy, and to transform our sexual experience with our partner using a nine-phase experiential process.
"I wrote Sex Without Stress to bring hope and transformation to all of the couples who are in good relationships but are suffering in their sex lives and don't see a way forward. It's totally normal to struggle in your sex life, because at some point you are going to run into common obstacles like sexual dysfunction, lack of desire, or even just a busy life. By changing the way you think about intimacy and relationships, and by working through my 9-phase process, you can transform your sex life. And when your sex life is working, your whole relationship is going to work better," says Zimmerman.
Advance Praise for Sex Without Stress:
Whether being in a couple or working with couples, skill, perseverance and perspective are always important. Jessa Zimmerman, an expert in counseling couples, has written a much-needed book about couples. Her book is accessible and insightful. Her advice is never 'formulaic' but instead focuses on thoughtful and practical discussions about growing as a couple. I've wanted to refer to a book like this for a long time. So glad and not a moment too soon, Zimmerman has written it. I give it my highest recommendation!
-Sallie Foley, Director, University of Michigan Sexual Health Certificate Program & Co-author, Sex Matters for Women
Jessa Zimmerman takes the reader through a straightforward and no-nonsense journey, highlighting the most common struggles couples experience. This book
identifies the top issues with which couples struggle: from defining what sex is or should be, desire discrepancies and differences in couples' sexual styles. She clearly maintains that it is essential for each partner to be accountable for themselves-and to each other-to follow the useful action steps she walks them through necessary to bypass avoidance, disappointment and pressure.
-Dr. Joe Kort, LMSW, Author & Speaker
A definitive resource that helps couples face and identify the pain of lost sexual intimacy. Jessa bridges the gap between sexual desire and sexual despair as she offers concrete methods to stop avoiding sex. Her techniques clearly outline ways to have "sex without stress" that are accessible to all couples, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. As a sex therapist, I highly recommend this book as it pursues reducing the pressure and finding the pleasure of sex.
-Edy Nathan MA, LCSWR, CST
Over the last 40 years, I have met many good couples struggling to become great, trying to recapture the passion they had when they first met. Sexual problems are common over a long-term relationship. Many couples avoid sharing their personal feelings about their sexuality, failing to address the personal barriers to recapturing that loving lust. Jessa Zimmerman's book addresses just that, helping couples who avoid sex to find transparency and willingness to share and explore oneself and each other's sexual map. Sex Without Stress can help your love life become great again.
-Dr. Kevin Seymour, Clinical Psychologist